| A rough guide to this important aspect
of dojo etiquette. Japanese Budo brings
with it elements of Japanese culture. One aspect which establishes
the hierarchy in the dojo and governs etiquette is the relationship
between Sempai and Kohai. This hierarchy is important for the harmonious
running of the dojo and for instilling the correct attitude among
its members.
Two important points must be understood regarding
the dojo:-
1. The dojo is not a democracy!
2. the welfare of the individual comes a distant second to that
of the group.
You may have heard the term Sempai used to denote the senior student
in the dojo, however the term is more general than that and applies
to the senior person in any relationship between any two members
of a dojo. Kohai is simply the converse of Sempai…like two
sides of a coin!
In the dojo, Sempai/Kohai is based on who has
been training the longest, or rather, who has the highest rank and
has no bearing on talent or technical/ physical ability or status
in the outside world.
The system of Sempai/Kohai is regulated by the
Japanese class system or "Mibun Seido", which is the system
of rights and responsibilities. No one can have absolute authority
over another without a concomitant share of distinct responsibilities.
All doka have obligations dependant on their position in the hierarchy.
We are all ”Onjin”, - one who has an obligation. The
Japanese have a saying…."life and death are light as
a feather, but obligation..........is as heavy as a mountain"
Kohai is expected to adhere to certain patterns
of behaviour, i.e:-
• Be generally respectful towards Sempai
• Seek out sempai to train
• Offer assistance to sempai
Kohai should not…….
• Offer advice to Sempai
• Question Sempai’s technique /judgement
If Kohai steps out of line at all, he/she is considered
“a nail sticking up” and it is Sempai’s obligation
to hammer him/her back down.

“Oh dear, a nail sticking up…down
you go!”
Sempai is expected to…….
• Assist Kohai in all aspects of training, often sacrificing
his/her own
• Set a good example to Kohai in his/her actions/conduct/spirit.
• Generally take responsibility & the initiative around
the dojo.
In Japanese society the sempai-kohai rules are
applied far more rigidly, to the point that there is a different
use of language depending on whom you are addressing. We certainly
don’t need to go to quite such extremes but should uphold
the basic principles for it is said the sempai-kohai is the essence
of Budo. Knowing and accepting your place in the dojo hierarchy
is important for a number of reasons:-
TO FACILITATE LEARNING
A beginner , in order to learn, must be open and receptive not doubting
and disrespectful. You cannot broadcast and receive at the same
time!
TO REMAIN IN THE
DOJO
A key aspect of Aikido philosophy is that one should learn to be
humble and subdue the ego. The brash , the boastful and the self-important
are ultimately shown the door or find it themselves.
TO PROGRESS
Seniority and advancement in aikido can only be earned in one way,
by long term dedication and by sticking to the rules. There is no
short route no matter how talented you may be and no place for ‘mavericks’!.
Please note that complying with all of the above
is extremely difficult and as hard as we try we are constantly falling
short of the ideal behaviour. It is therefore important to develop
an attitude of constant self- examination.
So , if you aspire to the greater heights of Aikido stardom, you
have little choice but to train hard and be patient.
Tony
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